How to Stop Divorce and Save Your Relationship

A divorce can be stopped at any stage—before it’s filed or just before it needs the final paperwork. It is better to stop divorce plans at its initial stage.To do this, you have to convince your partner to give the relationship another try. This isn’t always possible, but it’s perfectly necessary if you have a chance of stopping a divorce.
If you have been begging the other person to give you another try or get back together with you, it's time to stop. This might convince him/her that filing for divorce was right after all and this might boost her ego and the decision to divorce you.

If you start behaving more pleasantly and maturely, it might surprise the other person and help stop divorce. Explain that you really don’t want the divorce and you want another chance in a calm way because screaming or carrying on won’t help your chances. Just make it clear that you’re hurt, sad, and really want another chance. This might have a positive outcome.

You can also display some maturity that the other person might not have seen over a long period of time and then suggest marital counseling to stop divorce. Counseling has worked for millions of couples and you too could benefit from it. If both of you make it to couples counseling, chances are that you will be able to convince them to give you and the relationship another chance.
During counseling you’ll have the opportunity to show the person why you both went into the relationship and what has kept you together along the way. And if you can show honest effort in wanting to deal with the problems that come up during the counseling, that might be enough to convince the other person not only to stop divorce temporarily, but completely.

When you succeed in stopping divorce, you must be careful because any mistake on your part would make it easy for them to change their mind and file for divorce again. Having already thought about divorce and maybe even having gone far enough as to file for it once makes the decision to file again easier. So be aware of the state of your relationship, and perhaps continue counseling. It’s easier to stop divorce temporarily than to have a good relationship for the long term.